Ok so i have a question for you guys...do you think if a girl goes through heartbreak it is cause for her to be promiscuous. I know when i was hurting, i did some pretty stupid things because i felt betrayed but thats a story you all know. Looking at relationships nowadays, it seems like no one really stays together or someone is always cheating on the other person. Take this couple i thought was absolutely perfect till someone told me he cheats on her on the regular with different girls...like really?. Another couple together for 2 years and out of the blue he say's he needs a break...that he isn't ready to be anyone's husband. Eh hen! when u were eating the jollof rice and egusi soup you didnt know you were not ready to be a hubby...what nonsense.
Its not just guys tho...girls do stupid things in relationships too but guys are the worst i swear...
Thats why I've been telling people i am Asexual..because its not just worth it. They say you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince...i dont want to make it a habit of kissing frogs...i've done enough of that.
This dude at my job is proving difficult, he keeps wanting to take me out and i keep making excuses...i really just want to scream..i am not interested! but that might be a bit melodramatic? plus he offered to take me to this basketball game so i might wait till after that...yes who no like better ting..i can like to enjoy the perks before i dump the guy ni.
So who all is going to Naija this xmas...i know i am not...hisss and i know enough berra parties in Lagos..you guys should have fun for me too oo. Sometimes i get into moods where i miss Nigeria soo much i just want to cry. I get so bored of yankee life sometimes...but then i remember that somewhere in the world..someone less fortunate would love to be in my shoes so i just put up and shut up. Wetin man go do?
Sha im glad my blog boyfriend is back in action...Naija bad boi...you haven't been on his page already please get on it http://playernummer1.blogspot.com/ . He's such a sweetheart too..sometimes he just makes my heart flutter...."bats eyelashes..".. even though babes are constantly chasing him and i dont like to share oo!! lol
I should have ample gist for you guys soon...got some events this weekend to attend..so you guy already know....so get ready sha.
I cant believe Christmas is next week..I feel like I'm not into Christmas like i was in my younger years...back in the day I used to be so excited about christmass...decorating..waiting for my christmaas dress and all the visits to every eatery in lagos. You might I'm not a child anymore but christmas in yankee can be so boring..first of all everyone stays in their house to watch TV (all the christmas specials, movies..charlie brown blah blah)...second..i live in a state where it never snows...so i can't even get THAT on christmas..and gifts come very rarely now...I know the true meaning behind christmas is the birth of Christ and I'm all about that. Yet Christmas used to be funnnn!..now its just Blah....I know i need to get outta this funk so I've been listening to a lot of Christmas carols lately maybe that will help. Plus whats all this Santa rubbish...please give me Father Christmas jorr..lol
Yet I want you all to have a very merry christmas...Jesus is the reason for the season so don't do all this Happy Holidays rubbish...I also want to send a request to my mommy and daddy..Mr and Mrs Olorimomunio and my Aunty Chinwendubuisi and my brother and sister and cousins and classmates at Aunty Busirat nursery and primary school ilesha...and all my blogger boos! lol
Muah xx
12 comments:
fiiiirrrsssst....wat a comeback meeehn
loool...
....girls are worse when it comes to cheating...
imagine oo...u want to enjoy basketball game abi...yeye...
and sweetheart....?u make seem like a nice guy (u know...dem ones dat dont get any action)..eh?
glad to be back boo
if u want snow so much i wudnt mind sendin u some...
plus...a heartbreak is no excuse to be promiscuous...but then again human beings look at things in a very wierd way...and most times it makes perfect sense to them at the time
xmas in yankee is pretty damn boring though ive just come to realize that especially when i saw all the parties my cousins in lagos r promoting on fbk...*sigh* maybe xmas in Lagos will happen next yr...
about the promiscuous thing...i agree, i think ppl who have been hurt tend to be that way...and maybe its a power thing especially with guys and it also could be a self esteem issue...i seriously dont see what people get out of sleeping with every guy/girl that comes their way though...u reap what u sow so to each his/her own like they say :anything wey u do for this life, na for ur head!!!
happy holidays :)
relationships these days really do seem like a waste of time...seems like everyone wants to feed their sex drives and move on...i feel like throwin my hands in the air and saying $#@%^&& it ( i couldnt contain my self o, i had to put that in!)
aww....me too, I think Christmas ere is boring.
I miss all watching all those "I want to make a request to..." show...good times.
Your last paragraph is so funny, all those request show, LOL.
I agree with you that r/ships are difficult and when it is not the right one, it could be a pain. But the basketball game guy a chance sha, be like say bobo get rhymes, LOL.
Christmas, what is that charlie brown shows sef?
E no easy with the whole cheating thing. Seriously. Welcome back! U have been missed
SHADAP THERE!!!
see your mouth like...err erhm..???
i'll get back to you on that one
lol!
welcome back...since i've said it
about 3times, i think ut means you
are back.
lmao...u r funny o, missed u and merry Christmas....enjoy the basketball game...lol
Merry Christmas dearie!
HABA!!
a knock? if i get koko on my head, who will marry me, ehn? why would you do me like this na....lol
How are you babes? Mehn, i feel you on the christmas sturvz oh... i soooo dont feel the season mehn... i mean, i'm happy its Jesus' bday and all, but i seriously have no plans whatsoever! plus i RARELY get gifts, so no need to change body structure.
What is with all the guys and babes lately? nothing seems to stick! its kinda scary mehn.... now i am hearing its normal in naija for married women to go and be carrying young boys in the open with no shame. nawa oh
as for the guy at work, be careful oh! some of these people can become stalkers when you make use of their, urm, "generousity" (trust me, i've been there).
Any men on the horizon?
oh, btw,
i can't stand twitter.
I just cant see the point of it. I confess, i dont know much about it, but i mean, life is already stressful enough, why would i care that lindsay lohan just brushed her teeth? Or that some random friend just got rice krispies? i mean, its like getting all those stupid facebook statuses about how some person is a *female dog* and other yarns, but to be getting such rubbish in real time? God forbid!
Ok, i'm off my soap box now. :)
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